Dear Maven Haven,
I have a dilemma. I was just offered a prestigious position within a brand new company far away from the city. The upside: rising in the ranks, the downside: my husband wouldn’t be able to find a reasonable job in the area. We just got married. Not to mention, we were hoping to start a family. I believe I could manage it all, but I am not sure whether I am making the right decision?
Ms. Dilemma
Dear Ms. Dilemma,
All decisions have consequences. Taking a position within a new company can be exciting and add a bit of spice to an otherwise boring routine; however, if you bet your career on the idea of prestige, think twice. Since you do not share specific details (what kind of a position; what level etc.), it would be unwise to jump to conclusions. But jump I will: the prestige that you so much desire does not come from afar nor do you have to sacrifice your relationships and family life to find success. However, at times, you have to find the chutzpah to take 2 steps back in order to make that giant leap forward. Dear DM, be patient! Here’s a parable for you. Even Sisyphus got to see the silver lining, but his life’s true meaning came from pushing the boulder up the hill! Beware, Dilemma Maven, for each silver lining, there is another boulder to push. So the decision is yours: if you are after chasing rainbows, go on an adventure, but if you’re after long-term success, put your head to the grind and just keep pushing.
Yours as always,
Maven Haven
